A beginner's guide to cross stitch

A beginner's guide to cross stitch

Cross stitch is making a comeback among modern makers and crafters. Learning how to cross stitch is easy, and these cross stitch instructions for beginners will get you stitching in no time!

What is cross stitch?

Cross stitch is a form of counted thread embroidery that has been around for ages, and it is one of the easiest forms of hand embroidery to learn. Cross stitch is comprised of X-shaped stitches done on fabric with an even and open weave like Aida or linen. Designs can be traditional or modern or anywhere in between.

Cross stitch projects are often sold as kits, but you can also purchase basic supplies and come up with your own project.

Either way, follow these steps to learn the basics of cross stitch.

Step 1: Reading a cross stitch chart

A cross stitch chart tells you everything you need to know about where to stitch and what color to use. The grid on a cross stitch chart corresponds to the grid created by the weave of the fabric, and each colored square on the chart represents a cross stitch.

A combination of colors and symbols in the squares (or symbols only if the chart is black-and-white) tell you which color of floss to use. Use the chart legend to map the symbols to the floss colors.

how to read a cross stitch chart

When you begin a new cross stitch project, it is a good idea to start stitching in the middle of the design. That way you make sure your design is centered in the fabric. Small arrows at the edges of a cross stitch chart indicate the center points.

Take a look at your chart and find an area close to the center to start with. It can be easier to start with a large block of color instead of part of the pattern that changes color frequently.

Step 2: Prepare your fabric

Cross stitch can be done on a number of different fabrics, but the most common are Aida and linen. Both are woven fabrics that have a tendency to fray when cut. Before you start stitching, it is a good idea to bind the edges particularly if you are stitching a large project that will require lots of handling.

To minimize fraying, sew the edges with a zig-zag stitch or use a serger if you have one. If you don’t want to sew the edges, you can also bind them with masking tape.

how to prepare fabric for cross stitch

Step 3: Find the center of your fabric

To find the center of your fabric, fold it in half one way and then fold it in half the other way. Pinch and crease the center point to mark it. You can place a pin in the center or make a small stitch to further mark the center point.

Step 4: Using a hoop or frame

There are lots of different styles of embroidery hoops and frames available. Whether you use one or not is up to you. Beginning stitchers may find it easier to put their fabric in an embroidery hoop.

To use a hoop, first loosen the screw and separate the two rounds. Place the round without the screw flat on a table or work surface. Lay the fabric over the hoop making sure the center of the fabric is in the center of the hoop. Place the other round over the fabric and press it down so the fabric is sandwiched between the two hoops. Gently pull the fabric taut as you tighten the screw on the hoop. Don’t pull the fabric too tight or it will distort the weave of the fabric.

Step 4: Prepare your thread

Pick the color of floss you are starting with and cut a length about 18 inches long. If you go much longer than this, the thread is more likely to get knotted when you stitch.

Most embroidery floss is made up of six strands of thread twisted together. Depending on the fabric you are using, you will typically stitch with only one or two strands at a time.

To separate out a strand, hold the floss with one hand and pinch the end of one strand with the other. Gently and slowly pull the strand up and out until it is separated from the remaining strands. Only pull one strand at a time. Pulling multiple strands may cause the floss to knot.

Step 5: Thread your needle

Cross stitch is typically done using a round-end tapestry needle. The size you use depends on your fabric. If you are stitching a kit, use the needle that came with it. If not, see this article on choosing a needle for cross stitch.

Thread your needle just as you would a needle for hand sewing. Don’t make a knot in the tail end. You will stitch over the tail as you work to secure it without needing a knot. As a general rule, you want to avoid using knots when cross stitching because they can leave lumps in the final piece.

Step 6: Making a row of cross stitches

Cross stitch is generally worked in rows going from left to right. Refer to your stitching chart to figure out where you want to begin stitching.

Starting from the back side of the fabric, bring your needle up through a hole toward the front, leaving about an inch of thread at the back. You will cover the tail with your stitches as you work to secure it.

Next pass your needle through a hole diagonally across from where you started to make a slanted half cross stitch (/). Be sure to hold on to the tail at the back of the fabric so it doesn’t slip through.

how to cross stitch steps

Start your second half cross stitch by bringing the needle back up through the hole that is directly below the one you last used. Before you pull this stitch tight, flip your fabric over to the back and make sure the thread tail will be trapped by the stitch.

how to start cross stitch

Continuing stitching along the row to make a series of half cross stitches (////).

how to cross stitch in a row

Next return across the row making a series of half cross stitches in the other direction (\\\\).

how to make cross stitches

Step 7: Making individual cross stitches

In some places on your design it may be easier to make a complete cross stitch before moving on to the next stitch instead of working in rows. Follow the diagram below to make individual cross stitches.

cross stitch diagram

Step 8: Ending your thread

Keep stitching until you reach the end of the thread or until you run out of stitches in your pattern. On the back side of the fabric, pass the needle under at least three completed stitches to secure the thread. Trim the remaining thread, being careful not to cut it too close.

cross stitch how to end thread

Tips & tricks

You will quickly get comfortable making basic cross stitches. Here are a few additional tips to keep in mind.

  • Aim for a nice easy tension on your stitches. Don’t pull them so tight that they warp the fabric or leave them so loose that they gap. The stitches should lie flat against the fabric without pulling against it.
  • Don’t make long jumps across the back of your fabric with the thread because they might show through on the front. When moving to a new area that is more than a few stitches away, you should end your thread and then begin it again in the new spot.
  • Buy all your supplies for a project at the start. Thread comes in dye lots that may vary slightly between batches.
  • As you stitch, the thread will tend to get twisted. Every once in a while, let your needle and thread hang freely to let it unwind.
  • Have fun! Cross stitch is a relaxing and rewarding craft. Don’t stress too much about the details and enjoy the process!
Susan Fitzgerald


Susan Fitzgerald

I cross-stitched when I was a little girl, and I’m getting back into it now. There are so many wonderfu things you can create! Wanted to brush up on my general knowledge to make sure wasn’t forgetting anything before starting up again. Happy stitching everyone!

Susan Fitzgerald

I am doing a large multi page pattern, and I’m about 3/4 done. I bought the largest Aida fabric I could. I’ve just found out that my Aida fabric is not bug enough to fit the whole pattern. What do I do? Is there any way I can use another Aida sheet?

Susan Fitzgerald

Please don’t recommend masking tape to finish edges. It leaves a gluey residue that can’t be washed out. If there is no other way available to finish edges, recommend that enough excess fabric be allowed that the masking tape can be cut off entirely.

Susan Fitzgerald

Where can I find this book? Don’t do Amazon (past experience) and have not found it at craft stores

Susan Fitzgerald

I have spent days and months looking for a website that ACTUALLY teaches me how to cross stitch. Haven’t found one. I can’t watch videos bc my data plan doesn’t allow it. Therefore I need photo diagrams.

There hadn’t been EVEN ONE site that shows how to start a new row/maneuver between rows. Every site I’ve been to has shown nothing but the first row. Then nothing more on how to go up or down a row.

Will you do that please???

Susan Fitzgerald

Iwant to learn how to cross stitch. I want to cross stitch a poem. I don’t know where to start the first word .It will start out with the title of the poem. Thank you

Susan Fitzgerald


Susan Fitzgerald


Susan Fitzgerald

In this article the top arrow, marking the middle line, is marked between two threads. So where do you start? In the middle of the stitch?

Susan Fitzgerald

i need to know how to make a & in crossstitch which represend AND because i havnt got enough space to write AND can anybody help me with this cheers sue

Susan Fitzgerald

Just copied this tutorial and I am so excited to get into cross
stitching. This tutorial seems very easy and easy to follow.

Susan Fitzgerald

i created a pattern to cross stitch when it brought up the colors it had the floss brand (example: dmc 931 then underneth dmc is the number 590. i know the 931 is the floss color i just don’t know what the other number is for.

Then on the top bottom of the pattern it is numbered 1-100 & on both sides it is numbered 1-150 I’m not sure what that is for. I was hoping you would be able to help. If you can or know someone who can could you provide me with the necessary information.

thank you for your time and understanding,
julia frost

Susan Fitzgerald

Thank you!
I am working on a pattern that has large Xs and small ones. Do the small Xs stand for quarter stitches, or am I to actually stitch a small x? I appreciate your assistance!

Susan Fitzgerald

Thank you very much. Im nee t I cross stitching and this is very useful. I wish you would show how to twist the thread over the clothes pins in your photo. That looks like a really good way to hold them together.

Susan Fitzgerald

What a helpful tutorial! You answered all my questions.

Susan Fitzgerald

Do you work backwards for the row below the first when using the same color of thread ?

Susan Fitzgerald

Thread needle with the loop end first. Pull needle up through the fabric and back down again. Make sure the loop stays at the back until u bring the open end of the thread through the loop after the open end had passed up and back down all the way through the fabric. Pull it through the loop and tighten to anchor your thread.

Susan Fitzgerald

What does it mean 15 count 30 linen is 30 stiches or 15 stitches

Susan Fitzgerald

I need to leart more about xsstitch…how to put thread easyl.and how to do back stitch?

Susan Fitzgerald

Do you rinse and dry the Aida cloth before stitching?
How do you get rid of wrinkles in Aida cloth?

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